Sorry to have read about the death of your loved one. Death is such a cruel and terrible enemy of mankind. I know that this most painful moment there is very little I could say to comfort you. However, when you have a moment please reflect on this wonderful promise found here at John 11:25. In part it says, " The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies will come to life" What a wonderful promise! For more encouraging words please visit jw.org